Best Toys for Parent and Toddler Groups

Toy Recommendations for Parent and Toddler Groups
Over the past five years, I have been part of a team that organises two large Parent and Toddler Groups in Greystones. Over that time, we have seen lots of toys enter our building and leave in black sacks – so I’ve decided to take a few minutes to write a blog which might help you, if you are starting a Parent and Toddler Group in your area and have money to purchase some new toys or if you’re just updating some toys in your existing group.

There are some factors that need to be considered:

1. Money

Most Parent and Toddler Groups in Ireland are run voluntarily and charge very little for parents to attend. This means, they have a very small budget to spend on toys. As money is an issue, you need to spend wisely. This doesn’t mean buying the cheapest toys you can source, but rather, in my opinion selecting a few really good quality toys that will last several years.

Janod - Miss P'tite Vanity Case with wooden accessories
Janod – Miss P’tite Vanity Case with wooden accessories

2. Quality, safety and low maintenance

As I’ve already said, I try to always choose quality toys as they last more than a few months. I have found that toys get destroyed much quicker in Parent and Toddler Groups than they do in home environments. I’m not sure why this is and cheaper donated toys may only last a few weeks. You will need to inspect and clean your toys regularly – so choose ones that can be wiped clean easily for example a plastic doll instead of a soft fabric doll or foam mats instead of fabric rugs.

Janod Confetti Musical Table
Janod Confetti Musical Table

Remember that you will be hosting children from 0-4 years old, so you need to make sure there’s nothing dangerous for smaller kids, that they could choke on or large fast toys that older children could crash into younger children with. Sit on cars, like the Little Tikes Cosy Coupe Car are brilliant. Older kids love them and you can’t work up a speed in the same way.

Janod Sweet Cocoon Xylo Roller
Janod Sweet Cocoon Xylo Roller

Children tend to have quite a few noisy battery toys at home, so adding them into your group may not be necessary. The volume of noise in your group will be heightened considerably with even a few battery toys and you have the extra work and expense of having to replace batteries and making sure they don’t corrode the toy over the summer holidays.

Melissa and Doug Fold an Go Dollhouse
Melissa and Doug Fold an Go Dollhouse


I am a big fan of reading stories to my children and we have a box of books in our group. However, they need replaced regularly due to the artistic talent within our group!! Paper back books don’t last long at all and even cardboard books rarely last longer than a year. Fabric books are a great alternative, although they will need to be brought home to be washed regularly. A book like this is more durable and can be wiped clean.

Teether Soft Book - Farm
A fabric baby book from Galt Toys featuring farm animals


3.Storage space and tidying up

At the end of every Parent and Toddler Group, you need to be able to tidy up and usually your storage space is limited. Toys that have lots of little pieces, are not only dangerous for smaller babies, but they never stay together in your hall and become extra work to pick up. So instead of buying a 50 pieces of plastic play food, choose something like a wooden play pizza that has 6 slices that velcro together. It’s more likely to be played as ‘one toy’ and to be kept together and we have found that once kids put the plastic play food in their mouths and chew on them, they are only fit for the bin! Avoid toys like tubs of wooden blocks, shape sorters etc.

Wooden Kettle and Mugs - pretend food from Small Foot Design Toys
Wooden Kettle and Mugs – pretend food from Small Foot Design Toys

Toys that fold up, are great for storage. We have several little buggies that fold very small. They are hugely popular and often fought over. We also have a Little Tikes Slide that folds up and I’m happy to recommend it too.

After you have chosen a few large toys, buy a large storage container and try and fit in as many smaller toys into it. Toys like soft balls , push along toys , spinning tops,  and pull along toys can be very popular

Velvety Mood Balls
velvety mood balls

4. Group Activities

Some parent and toddler groups allow the whole time for free play. Others are more structured. There’s a time to play, a time for snacks and a time for nursery rhymes, singing and story telling. If your group has a time for singing, having a box with some children’s musical instruments can be really helpful. It will encourage the children to take part and might even help relax the parents, especially if they don’t like singing in public.  I stock a range of them here. You don’t have to spend a fortune to have a box of instruments that will be used every week. Remember to  avoid instruments that involve blowing as you’ll need to disinfect them every time they are used.  You might like seeing some of my benefits of music for children and some musical instruments and toys for young children in this blog.

Wooden castanets
Wooden castanets for children
wooden maracas
wooden maracas

I hope this blog has helped you as you think about what toys to purchase for your group. Don’t forget to check out your local Childcare Committee, as they may be able to help fund some purchases!! I’d love to hear what toys have worked in your groups – so please comment below and we’ll all benefit from each other’s experiences!


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